Picture her laughing at every thing you say, leaning in, and grasping at your every word, right from the very start of the conversation.
Did you know there are EASY, QUICK, and EFFECTIVE ways to start a conversation with that random girl, and easily move things forward to a relationship, or just the bedroom for the night? Haha
What follows are the best pick up lines I’ve found for starting the conversation and amping things up QUICK!
What makes me qualified?
Well, I’ve been teaching men how to meet, approach, and date women for over 3 years, in nearly 40 countries.
Through these simple lessons I’m about to teach you, I’ve helped HUNDREDS of guys get better results when out approaching women, with countless success stories.
Alright, let’s get started.
So you see that girl across the bar, and you think about approaching her.
The first step is taking action.
Before you even think, before you start creating rationalizations and excuses for why not to approach, GET MOVING!
The longer you wait, the less likely you are to do it.
So you start walking. You get right next to her…
And your mind goes blank!
Here are a few conversation starters to get the interaction rolling and build attraction QUICK!
-First let me preface this by saying HOW you say it is much more important than WHAT you say, but since you came here looking for pick up lines, I’ll tell you the ones that have worked the best.
1. Ay! I thought you looked adorable, and I HAD to meet you.
2. Ay! You’re cute. What’s your name?
Going direct and stating your intent comes across confident, and shows that you are the type of guy that when he sees something he wants, he goes for it.
This is highly attractive to a woman because it conveys how you would act in an actual relationship with her.
Are you the type of guy that’s going to be lazy and not do anything in life, or are you a man with self esteem. A productive, stand up, no nonsense type of guy that lives life passionately, with the qualities that most women find attractive.
She can figure this out right from the very beginning of the interaction!
So set yourself apart from every other guy by approaching strongly, with confidence, as opposed to half ass and lame.
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3. Hey, you guys look fun.
I like this statement because it forces them into a fun frame.
It shows that you are just going up, and bringing a good vibe to their crew.
Too many time when a guy goes up to approach a woman, he does so in a needy, creepy, outcome dependent way.
What I mean by this is that HE is trying to enter “THEIR party” so to speak.
He isn’t bringing anything into the interaction.
He’s trying to leech any good vibes from the girls, as opposed to going up ALREADY having fun, and increasing the party vibe of the interaction as opposed to bringing down the energy and getting all serious.
One way that I teach guys how to get into that happy emotional head space first, is through self amusement.
Then, once you feel good, whatever you feel she feels, and she will start enjoying your company as well.
Now I’d like to say a few words about HOW you start the interaction, as opposed to what to say specifically.
If you’d like more on what to say, check out my article on Running out of Things to Say.
As in any human interaction, actions speak louder than words, so the loudness, clarity, tonality, and the body language you utilize when approaching a girl is vastly more important than the actual pick up line.
The three things that I consider most important:
1. Maintain Eye Contact at ALL TIMES.
NEVER look down.
NEVER look away.
Force yourself to maintain eye contact, even if you are trying to think of something to say.
Stare her down, girls love the feeling of a man who can hold eye contact with them.
2. BE LOUD!
Speak up! It doesn’t matter if you have the best pick up lines for girls if they can’t hear you. You need to speak louder than you think you necessary!
Always err on the side of being too loud, as opposed to just right.
You need to cut through the loud music, or whatever the stimulus that would pull her attention away from you.
Your own energy has to be more stimulating than the energy of the environment, so you have to SPEAK UP and COMMAND ATTENTION!
This leads into the last characteristic to utilize when approaching women.
3. The Tone of Voice- Commanding!
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Lastly, a few funny pick up lines to get you back onto your day with a smile…
1. Hey girl, I’d like to be a part of your next abortion.
2. I wanna put a baby in your tummy.
3. I was conceived to this song. This song playing right now, I was conceived to this song.
4. Orange peels.
5. (The stare of doom) -literally, you just stare at them
6. Who lies more, Beyonce or Justin Bieber?
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Brad Branson has been an international dating coach with the leading dating company Real Social Dynamics for 3 years.
Through his own success and teaching experience, he has taught HUNDREDS of men how to create the dating life they desire.
He’s coached in over 35 countries on 4 continents, developing universal patterns that ANYONE can apply, no matter what city, age or income bracket they come from.