I was talking with Tyler recently, and I think we pinpointed my biggest asset as a teacher.
It’s during the debrief sessions of our live weekend bootcamps.
I really like a high level interactivity, long question-answer sessions, where the students and I ping off of each other to fully flesh out concepts and determine what they are doing right and wrong.
So, I thought to myself…
How can I offer even MORE value on this blog, and show off some of my best teaching abilities?
Well… I’ve decided to create:
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I’ve been getting lots of questions about the blog, how I’ve amassed a following so quickly, and how other people can replicate the process.
So for those of you out there in the internet marketing (IM) arena, or those looking to start their own site/blog, I thought I’d give a few examples of lessons I have learned through developing this site.
I’ve held off for a long time on giving any IM advice because, one, I didn’t feel I had much credibility, and two, the internet marketing advice niche is even MORE sketchy than the pick up industry.
But I’ve learned a lot as this blog has taken off over the past few months, and I figured I’d explicate a few lessons that I couldn’t find anywhere else.
Did you guys know Jeffy’s book comes out TODAY?!
I have a question I need to ask you.
Have you bought Get Laid or Die Trying yet?
Now, I hope you have realized that I haven’t promoted a single product on my blog so far…
But here we go…
“Just self amuse dude.”
“You’re reaction seeking man, try to self amuse.”
“Yeah… She was boring.”
“My interactions just aren’t very playful.”
“You’re supposed to make the club a fun place.”
“Walk through the world with ease.”
“Be the Yacht.”
“Be the Gorilla.”
I’m sure you’ve heard at least a few of these before, but what do they mean?
There is a crossroads that every man who is successful with women reaches.
It’s right at the cusp between intermediate and advanced, dabbler and master.
I can just smell the vibe in field reports when I see a guy at this level.
I was rereading through my old posts on RSDNation, it’s all there by the way, all my old field reports.
I found an old post that I have given to many of my assistants when they reach a very specific point in the journey.
Would you like to know the SINGLE TRAIT that every successful person possesses?
The one characteristic that, if you have it, will guarantee success.
It’s not something you’re born with.
It’s not something you cultivate.
It’s basically a simple switch.
You turn it on, and success is inevitable.
How about some audio instead of my long winded, written monologues?
Did you know that I run a monthly teleseminar where guys call in, ask questions, and I answer them in real time?
On the products page I had haphazardly added a link to an audio sample of one of my past teleconferences.
But looking at the stats on it, I don’t think many people even realized it existed.
So I’ve made it more accessible here for you now.
I’ve got the IAMA mPUA interview on reddit.com later at 7PM PST tonight, and for the event they asked me a bunch of questions ahead of time.
I tried to put a lot of effort into it because most of the guys on there aren’t familiar with RSD, and I wanted to give them a good first exposure.
The question and answer session turned into a 3000 word essay, so I figured I’d give my loyal readers a sneak preview before the interview is released tonight on reddit.
I sat down for brunch with my good friend Derek.
It was a few months after I had taken my bootcamp as a client, which he had assisted on, and we were debriefing the previous night out.
He said I needed to cultivate more dominance.
I needed to learn how to “choke a bitch.”
Start listening to N.W.A.
And then he slid a silver bound book across the table.
Let me ask you a question…
Does your verbal game change based on the girl’s response to you?
If you approach a girl, and she is initially receptive, do you have any problem being social, whereas if you don’t get a good initial first reaction, you are at a loss for words?
I hear guys all the time say this.
“Yeah, if she gives me something to work with, the conversation usually goes pretty well. It’s when I don’t get her to reinitiate… It never seems to work out.”
What does this scream of?
I get a lot of students on program that are SO DEPENDENT on the girl’s reaction. They need that social feedback to give themselves permission to move forward.
Whether that be to escalate, in getting physical, or just continuing the conversation, if they don’t get any positive feedback from the girl they get uncomfortable and leave the interaction early.
So, how do we cultivate the opposite?
What does it mean to be unreactive?
So if you haven’t noticed I’m on a serious binge right now.
A week in Miami, crazy instructors, beautiful girls…
I have a new Miami girlfriend. Straight gorgeous.
Bleach blonde, amazing body. Mmmm….
I’m in New Orleans for Mardi Gras and the internet here is seriously 1998 style, and it’s costing me like $8 an hour to send this.
I’ll be back to your regularly scheduled program, for now…
We are a consumer culture.
The average person assumes that if you spend enough money, if you find the right product, you won’t need to put the time in to get the results.
It’s a twist on the magic pill mentality.
Buy the Fender guitar amp that Jimi Hendrix used, and you can sound just like him.
Buy the Nike Golf Clubs that Tiger Woods uses, and you can “swing” just like him. (nice pun, heh)
Eat whatever you want, and buy the six pack abs machine to get ripped.
Buy the $300 a month PPC coaching course, and become a millionaire on the internet.
Spend $2000 and a weekend of your time, and cure all of your problems with girls, and be as good as me.
No need to put the time in, just buy the façade, the technology, and everything will take care of itself.
It is this type of thinking that tempts guys to learn tactics and routines, trying to bag girls with tricks instead of working on themselves first.
20 degrees Fahrenheit, no gloves on, all I smell is gunpowder and the crackling brushfire a few feet away.
2 orange clay pigeons fly through the air, I raise my 20 gauge shotgun, and fire off two rounds…
I miss them both.
Welcome to my weekend.
I’m back home now packing quickly before heading to the SOLD OUT Model Season bootcamp with Tyler and Jeffy.
5 days of intense partying with girls from around the globe heading to Miami to enjoy the beautiful weather and night life scene.
Back to reality I guess. Heh.
I’m on my way to the Northwoods of Michigan USA, so I wanted to make sure this fired off before I hit desolation without internet for the next few days.
In celebration of the release of the e-book, I took the weekend off and am heading up north to shoot guns, walk around aimlessly through the woods, snowboard, and get plastered with my college mates.
Full male bonding glory…
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Brad Branson has been an international dating coach with the leading dating company Real Social Dynamics for 3 years.
Through his own success and teaching experience, he has taught HUNDREDS of men how to create the dating life they desire.
He’s coached in over 35 countries on 4 continents, developing universal patterns that ANYONE can apply, no matter what city, age or income bracket they come from.