Are you settling for “average” girls, or worse, not approaching because you feel “better” than the mediocre ones, yet not confident enough to get with the hottest girls in the club?
This is a question that I got during my teleconference today, and something I recently went through as well.
When you first find out about the “success with women” industry, you just want a hotter girl.
Then you realize that you have to become a more attractive man first if you want to get with said hotter girl.
So you start reading self development books, working on your perception of the world, and where you fit in it.
You start to groom yourself better, maybe hit the gym and paying more attention to your health and fitness.
You start taking up hobbies, becoming well rounded, and creating a LIFESTYLE that is fun and enjoyable.
And of course you head out and learn how to socialize, slowly going through the process of getting more comfortable around hotter girls.
Then it happens.
So I’ve been getting asked A LOT lately about the recent gains I’ve had in the gym, and getting swole as the kids seem to be saying these days.
For whatever reason, diet and bodybuilding advice almost always turns into ridiculously heated debates, and even though my program is working SICK for me, I didn’t feel qualified to give you advice in this arena, and wanted to get a true expert.
I badgered my good friend and fitness mentor Dubbaldown for weeks, and let me tell you, he delivered!
Wowzers, it was a long one for me.
It was a weekend of excess with some old friends for a bachelor party, including everything from strip clubs, bottle service, shooting guns, drunken golf, and SKYDIVING!
Now that I don’t really party hard anymore, it’s taken 3 days to fully recover, and I’m finally back in productivity mode.
I woke up today, after about 36 hours of sleep over the last 2 days, haha, and my mind was racing…
All sorts of weird, low consciousness types of thoughts were running through my head about how lazy I was, how I’m falling backwards by not hitting the gym enough, how I’m procrastinating way too much on getting what I need to get done.
For a few hours it was one of the lowest places I’ve been in a while.
Looking at it now, it’s funny how short it actually was, as I’m completely over it, and back on track, but I could see how in years past, something like this would last for DAYS, not an hour or two.
Alright, I need a break from my Lynda Essential Photoshop Training Course to write out a blog post for ya.
Might as well go game related, as I’m probably not going to be out much the next few weeks.
I’ve holed myself into The Lair, and I’m working on all sorts of fun new stuff, updating the site, working on sales copy, etc.
But what I want to talk about today is the newest sticking point that has developed in my game over the last two weeks, and how I plan to overcome it.
So I’ve been spending the last day or two assembling my new vBlog studio, and this is the first video with my new studio set up.
I just got back from Vegas, and had some new insights, and figured I’d throw together this quick video explaining the process.
If you are not developing you Game as quickly as you would like, and are looking for new techniques to expedite the process, then check out this video NOW!
I’ve been in a super productive mode the last 36 hours, and wanted to pound out a blog post here quick.
But, I had no clue what to write about.
So I went to the Main Forum on RSDNation to look for inspiration…
Then I decided to go comb through some other PUA forums.
The first few threads include:
How do you open when getting proximity?
What should you do when a girl indicates interest?
Why is hugging so important ?
Haha, I’ll stop there.
Not that I haven’t been there, it’s just I’m so far removed from these types of questions.
Are any of you guys still thinking about this stuff?
If so, you aren’t reading my material very closely, as I think I’ve covered these topics, and the stacking of 9-10 more paradigms on top of those questions through out the 200+ articles I have on this blog.
What is the answer to these questions?
You. Just. Do. It.
What paradigm are these questions coming from, and why do they no longer apply?
What’s up guys, I just wanted to send off a quick update since I didn’t throw up any articles this week.
I’ve been hitting it CRAZY in Vegas the last week or so, and headed back there in a few days again.
It was amazing, and all the work I’ve put into the last few months has culminated in just SICK results.
I’ve figured out a few things, mostly developed in South America, a mix between fucked up logistics due to all the hot girls being in VIP, as well as dealing with language issues.
Now that I’m back in the States, it’s like The Excalibur is cutting through warm hot butter. Kablam!
Alright, so this is another one of those “half in jest/half shine a light on your foibles” type of posts.
I’ve always followed the 5 Friends Rule, and I’m constantly surrounded by super successful people. It definitely pushes me to reach my potential, yet at the same time, I’m always the least financially well off compared to everyone I hang out with.
Haha, I guess I have other areas of expertise to offer, but it annoys me at times. I know I’m intelligent enough to be as successful as any other dude out there, offer more value, resulting in more money, and I work my damn ass off!
Or do I?
I feel like I’m constantly busy, with never any free time, and I’m always trying to stay productive.
Hit the gym, reading books, hitting the club hard, and making sure to keep on top of all the latest instructor articles and…
Oh, hold on a second. I’m pretty sure most of you guys do that to. AND HAVE REAL JOBS.
I love the nomadic lifestyle.
Everything changes in the blink of an eye.
A week ago I was in Buenos Aires, now I’m watching Justin Bieber videos with my niece in Milwaukee, WI. I get a phone call, and a friend asks if I want to get an apartment in Las Vegas for the summer…
This. Could. Happen.
The universe strikes again and offers me the path.
Boom! Another busy week, increasing my workload, but also hitting the gym like a BOSS.
Last night I stayed up until 6AM watching Pumping Iron by Arnold Schwarzenegger. He’s the fucking man in that movie. Totally worth checking out if you want to see someone with 100% belief, and at the top of their game.
So I had another realization over the past few days… My sense of entitlement just sky rocketed to another level!
I was out over the weekend, and you know the point in the interaction where the girl starts grabbing you, joking around?
Well, if it gets to that point, it’s DONE! Hahah. Not really, but that’s how I’ve started to feel inside.
Alright, so I talked to Tyler today for a good 2 hours, and we decided to have me start posting every Thursday over on RSDN, and I started that today.
I’m pretty stoked, as it’s going to be recurring, and should get a lot more traffic to my site, as well as older articles here, as I’ve been linking to some of the popular posts.
With that said, my workload just stepped up another notch, but I’m not too worried, it’s seem like I can just spew out articles like there is no tomorrow.
BUT, with articles coming out there every Thursday, I’ve decided to switch the posting on here to every Monday and Wednesday at 10AM CST. So if you were getting accustomed to the Tues/Thurs style, SORRY! But at least I’m still writing twice a week for yah.
What I want to do today is talk about what it means to be “icey,” and how you can develop it.
I’m entirely sleep deprived, to the point of full hallucination.
Seriously, after 2 days of no sleep, whenever I close my eyes these weird visions of Lady Gaga’s head start bobbing around in the darkness. Running straight from the club in Buenos Aires, home quick for an “after party,” straight to the airport, full day of traveling, crashing for a few hours at a friends place in Chicago, until here we are now… (run on sentence fun here)
Twenty four hours of travel time later, I’m on the train from Chicago to Milwaukee, and this song pops on Pandora.
Nice having my iPhone full functionality again.
Free flow here. I’m in the middle of an intense coding session, but wanted to make sure to get this out for Thursday.
It’s a little more raw than normal, but I don’t want to change the vibe and edit it up too much.
Look at it as a random peering into my mind. Heh.
I’ve been working for the last week or two on this here blog, tweaking headers, changing email opt ins, coding in the background…
Can you tell?!
I didn’t think so.
If there is anything I’ve noticed about success, is that it’s so granular, everything is SMALL.
I’ve been making huge strides in my “game” lately, and it’s mostly due to a shift in my perspective. I wanted to explain what it was, and also why most guys who get into this “success with women” thing lose their bearings at some point.
Also realize I’m trying to satirize the topic a bit, partially true, but I’m slightly over-emphasizing things to prove a point.
This will probably end up being some epic post in a few months, but I wanted to get the basic principle down and flesh things out a bit.
I’ve been on a serious self development kick which has had me analyzing countless experiences through out my past.
One of those is my relationship with my parents.
From talking with friends and clients, I’ve realized that I’ve had a better upbringing than most. My parents loved me, supported me, and I can’t remember the last time we’ve fought or had a conflict.
But I wanted to dive deeper into my early years to see how my personality was sculpted in those formative years, and see if I could get even more juice out of life.
Brad Branson has been an international dating coach with the leading dating company Real Social Dynamics for 3 years.
Through his own success and teaching experience, he has taught HUNDREDS of men how to create the dating life they desire.
He’s coached in over 35 countries on 4 continents, developing universal patterns that ANYONE can apply, no matter what city, age or income bracket they come from.