Hammering Home the Assume Attraction Mindset: Get RICH But Don’t Show it!

Great video, also assuming attraction is such a funny concept. I also had times where I had to force myself to “assume” it and just stop “working”.

It’s also funny with the girls I feel entitled to, theirs a category of girls that I’m really attracted to and pretty much always hit on and pulled. Nowadays I see myself not even questioning myself if she’s attracted. I just say words/actions because I know the only thing that could make us not fuck is if the friends if they cockblock or logistics … Nothing that I could do wrong

Lol @ Death stare example.

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LOL

you are a funny ass motherfucker.

haha man, i wish i had some cash, being 19,

a bootcamp is too much of a big deal!!

i’m in motherfucking canberra, the land of nothingness..

melbourne is 8 hours of driving.. might see you there for free tour… might not!

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Loved the vid!
The technical aspects were there and completely enhanced the presentation of your video. Beyond that, the content was undeniably spot on for how a man should act. You hammered out the points with perfect execution. Just like pulling a girl and having her eye fuck you, you had me watching the entire video and thoroughly enjoying it.
I though the way you explained assuming attraction went really well with relaxed arousal. I’ve been doing pick up for about a year and a half now and completely know the reaction women have when you ignore the stupid shit they say. In the video when you gave your example of disregarding their shit tests and continuing the conversation, it conveys being the MAN without you even trying. Its an advanced concept like you said because its so internalized and natural that there’s almost no effort being made and women still reacting to you.
Anyway, i thought I’d leave you a comment because this video resonated with me and i think it’s an important concept for self-actualization. Keep up the good work!

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no question here, i just need to say this vid had me ROLLING LOLLLLLL. when u fukin walked out the bushes all disgruntled and shit i died hahahaha. content was great dude thanks, also ur vid style is getting alot better! good work

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Your videos are amazing!

Especially those latest ones with music and stuff and hilarous jokes!

a lot of personality man, really inspiring

you’re really “being yourself”

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Brad, I was just curious about the song on the video. Is it the Avalanches? What song is it?

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*Haha, I even proofread and edited this message, I hope you get the time to read it*

Brad, I want to start by saying that I love your shit, and it has, no bullshit, spurred my life into a beautiful direction I never would have dreamed of a year ago. But I’d like to share a thought of mine on “old school” vs “new school” mentalities purely as applied to pick-up.

This is what it means when they say non-verbal cues are 90% of any interaction: A girl talking to you, and its some boring rave about why this is her favorite bar to go to. You’re responding by saying how it seems its pretty cool, it might just win you over, blah blah.

Now, the words here are not the message. Her body is turned fully towards you, showing that she is enraptured by you and wants to you to know of her interest. You’re body language is relaxed and maybe even includes casually leaning off (which is conveying a sense of scarcity to her subconscious)- its saying that you kind of like this girl. You could be won over, but you’re not a guy that is wooed by any random shiny object. She understands this body language, and it registers unconsciously, until her response is to continue to show more interest by playing touching you, laughing at your jokes, etc. You semi-consciously start to show her a little more favorable body language in reward for her IOI’s, so that she can feel a little more comfortable around you- after all, she seems sold, no longer a need to keep her on the fire any longer.

Now everything I just said there about the males body language is something that comes very naturally to those that are “naturals” or those that have been in “pick-up” for some time and developed a core confidence through continued positive reinforcement.

I feel like RSD has a message of, “don’t fucking over think it, go in there and do this natural thing! All the good body language will flow naturally from this higher mindset… without you trying to micromanage everything and getting in your head!” And that’s a refreshing and attractive offer to hear. But I found (in myself) that I wasn’t manifesting the self trust that I needed. Bravely I went in to sets thinking “God Damn! Why am I so awesome, whoa, here are these cuties, wonder what’s up with them!” Alas, it just began to break down after, but I would still try to hold the frame, still try to plow, until I just came off as more of a schtick than if I had just gone in with some pre-planned bullshit to say.

So I kind of say “fuck it” and check out things like “Mystery Method” which is admittedly very pre-canned and often corny. But I go into a set with a deep peace, knowing I have a fallback routine if things don’t go smoothly. I maybe bust one out at the beginning of the interaction, it goes great, I feel validated, and I say to myself, “shit that was good! I’m in the fucking zone now… so okay I don’t need to bring out this ‘old school game’ anymore.” And I legitimately don’t. At that point I feel so good internally that the only thing I’ll ever remind myself is “Damn, I’m the fucking yacht.” I’m out of my head, and my non-verbal cues become more fucking solid that when I was consciously managing them!”

So that was my experience. Given, one out of tens of thousands of different experiences that RSD has helped produce. My current mind state is, “man, that old school stuff is pretty amusing to me (and my wing -its a hoot to hear your bud spout some of that shit in public), and helps me get to where I need to be very quickly- in order be able to live fully through my intentions, Tyler Durden, Brad Branson style. Yeeeaaah. I truly do look forward to when my mindset has become crafted into excellence so well, (courtesy of positive references and some amazing RSD vids) , that I can live a life as confidently and bountifully as you describe.

Cheers, and thanks for reading mate.

-Wes

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Good stuff Brad ! Hyped for Evolutions, sounds sweet

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Hey, you mentioned that you’d put up the video of the gorilla in the comments. You mention this video of the gorilla all the time but never link it. I’d really like to see it. Can you please link it?

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hey Brad was a really great funny video.But ich have question about assume attraction.

So when you say ist about assume attraction, even if your nervous, do you, before you approach, tell yourself repeatedly in your head “oh she’s is gonna love me” or “ahh it will work out” till it sticks in your head?

Because when I go in state I do whatever, I want and i feel good about it, I am not in my head and results come automatic but in the first few hours I think its still hard assume attraction,because i dont have momentum.

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man, best video ever.

laughed my ass off and the insights are great.

i am following your shit for 3 years now, your teaching is better and better and better as time goes by.
congrats and keep up working.

psyched about evolutions.

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Just wanna say THANKS SO MUCH.

You and the whole RSD crew make my life better.

To help you reach your goal of have the best musical taste, better than anyone else, or whatever you said, check this out. You will love it because it is amazing.

http://soundcloud.com/marselluswallace

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love it!
you’re walking on the narcissism edge, dude!

it is about time for another EURO TOUR!

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Top Notch vid! Concepts were a rerun of past articles, but good to hammer this shit home! Vid production just keeps getting better. Also, I like how the video shows the concepts youre trying to teach. Calm & relaxed, instead of in your face.

Score +1 for you this round & tell Alex he’s got to step up his production game!

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