Dutch Success: All You Need is One Set

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Whatsup guys, long time no see…

So I’ve been on a rampage lately, running through the Dutch scene like there is no tomorrow.

I pulled on both Friday and Saturday, both Dutch girls, and both back to their place.

Last night was probably the most amusing as we rode her pink bike back to her place.

I made her drive because I haven’t ridden a bike in years, so I just sat on the back while she did all the work.

Good way to get the girl to invest, heh…

Today, I’d like to talk a bit about persistence, and how important it is.

The thing that made Saturday interesting was the whole “one last set” mentality.

It was late in the night, bootcamp was over, I was eating a late night kebab and decided that I might as well push myself to stay out longer and try to get it done.

There are multiple times where you’ll have to make this decision.  Sometimes you’ll pull a girl, but it’s not down so you run back to the club, or you’re going for two in a night in Las Vegas, or a lot of times I’ll run debrief at the end of bootcamp, and it’s so hard to get back into the social mode afterwards.

You step back into the bar/club at 3AM, and everyone is so pumped up, whereas you are starting at ground zero.

But I know what needs to be done, it’s happened so many times.

Unstifle, warmup set, and build momentum.

I do my patented yelling exercise that you can see in my bootcamp promo vid, start messing with my physiology by dancing around and then forcing myself into a set as quickly as possible.

A lot of times this doesn’t mean the first one will go well, but the second or third one you have a pretty good chance of building some good momentum and getting back into a social mode.

At the end of the night 5 minutes is a long time, people are leaving quickly, so each interaction is important.

But you have to push yourself through the pain, start building some momentum and start screening for logistics quick.

Also, I’ve said this before, you can use receptivity late at night to screen how “down” a girl is as well.

Escalate your physicality quickly, and if she is really receptive, check logistics, and get shit done.

But if you try to get physical and she’s not having any of it, it’s probably a better idea not to waste your time and move on to the next girl.

Out again tonight, day 12 in a row.  Let’s do it!