5 Simple Steps on How to Impress a Girl

After years of teaching guys dating advice around the world, I have come up with some of the best ways to teach them how to impress a girl.

What actually gets a girl to like you, and how can you get better at it?

Well the first thing we need to do is break down what causes attraction, and how to really get that girl at your beckon call.

Expression not Impression

Actually to talk specifically of impressing a girl, it’s kind of a loaded statement.

Something I often talk about is that you want to be the buyer, not the seller in an interaction.

If you are trying to impress her, what does that say about how you view her compared to yourself?

The goal is to actually get to the point where SHE is impressing YOU.

Easier said than done.

This is where concepts like Extreme Self Love come into play, and working on your MINDSET.

But since you are here for specifically because you asked how to impress a girl, here are five quick steps…

1.  Speak LOUD!

-Loud is a sign that you are unstifled, and at ease with your environment.  It shows that you are comfortable talking to her, and have talked to other girls just as cute as she is, making her feel more attracted.

2.  Take up Space.

-Get big.  Have a presence.  Create an aura.  The more physical space you can take up both as you talk and seated, the more it conveys that you are not insecure about your surroundings, a very attractive trait.

3.  Maintain Eye Contact.

-One of the first thing a girl looks at when trying to determine if you are a high value attractive man is how much you are able to maintain eye contact as you talk to her.  Hold it strong, even when you feel uncomfortable, get used to holding.

4.  Have FUN!

-Stress is an indicator that your life is not handled.  The most high value attractive guys have their shit together and feel at ease in the world.  They can have fun because they have little to worry about.

5.  Convey your Intent.

-Most guys are afraid to show that they actually like the girl, but if you can authentically show that you like her, and are willing to be vulnerable, it conveys MASSIVE value.

-Most guys are afraid to show that they actually like the girl, but if you can authentically show that you like her, and are willing to be vulnerable, it conveys MASSIVE value.

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57 Comments


Alex

This was exactly what I needed… Nice

    Brad Branson

    Glad you enjoyed it, rock on!

      dhruv

      My weakness is that i cant make the eyecontact!!! how to improve this

        Brad Branson

        Solely focus on making strong eye contact until you get comfortable with it.

          arun

          i love a gal but she is not talking to me

          Brad Branson

          If you want one specific girl learn to be good with women in general. Focusing on one girl projects unattractive qualities (Read: neediness).

Adam H.

I’ve never thought of it in this way before. Can’t believe there is only 3 comments on this page. Show the love guys!!!

    Brad Branson

    Haha, thanks man. I guess some articles get lots of luv, and others… Well… Who knows… :)

      Phil

      I always give compliments to her & always talk about how much I love her (romantic talk), but she never reply’s me back, she remains silent though she seems interested. How to make her talk. FYI: she is my fiancee.

        Brad Branson

        Well dude it sounds like you are coming from a needy frame (read: wanting her to validate you). Read The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida for more insight.

Jonathan

Brad, your articles are always fantastic, and this one is RIGHT THERE DUDE! It’s one of my top favorites along with http://www.bradbranson.com/live-the-high-fidelity-life-mind-excellence/

Keep it up!

    Brad Branson

    Thanks dude, yep that is probably my favorite article. Good reason it’s got so many comments. :) Thanks for checking out the site!

superb tips

superb tips yaaaaa

Vignz

Good tips. Thank you

XYZ

Take up Space.

-Get big. Have a presence. Create an aura. The more physical space you can take up both as you talk and seated, the more it conveys that you are not insecure about your surroundings, a very attractive trait.

Digesh

This is really awesome…
it will definately boost my confindence while talking with girls
Thnx a lot…..:)

sharan

How can i impress a girl on facebook..?? Plzzz tell me…

    Brad Branson

    Your best bet is to get her to meet you out and apply what I teach. It is tough to express yourself through a medium like facebook. Setting up your profile so you stand out is a start ;)

      SWAGGER

      DUDE this helped the girl ive loved since 6th grade im dating now and im in 9th THANK YOU SOOOOOOOO MUCH

        Brad Branson

        Haha, sure thing. :)

Karan

I’ll definately try it…!!
And lets see whats next

Bilibilal

Dude! Rock On! The points u highlighted is much better then reading tons of ebooks! Thank you so much :D

vk

hey thanks for this cool and an awesome advice, message u after i get a gf

    Brad Branson

    haha, sounds good. ;)

dev chouhan

yaa nice tips for impress lots of girls………..

    Brad Branson

    :)

Yogashish

Now impressing a girl(s) looks easy!!

    Brad Branson

    ;)

mahesh

Oh BRAD…you are awesome!!

    Brad Branson

    haha thanks :)

bLAHMAN

these tips actually,,worked….a talked a girl loudly with big space .and 2-3 min…eye contact..AND SHES READY TO BE MY GF….:D…UR AWESOME…BRAD BRANSON

    Brad Branson

    haha sweet!

kk

love u brad…super cool tips!!! haha

Aman

Man, cuz of u i now have a girlfriend.
thanks to u man.

Matthew

Thanks i needed the advice vause theres a girl in my class that is super cute

    Brad Branson

    Sweet! Get on it :)

sri kaka’

hey you are simply awesome brad, i like your way to approach a girl and the way to speak to her and its simply aesome i simply love your fantstic ideas dude………….. you are awesome and anyways thank’s dude

    Brad Branson

    sure thing. Glad you enjoy all the concepts!!

Jack

Hello SIr ,
Your tips are really awesome .. :D

but the thing i want to know is, how to know that i girl likes me or is interested in me …

haha and one more thing .. how to ask a girl for her mobile number … :)

??

    Brad Branson

    You don’t want to be coming from a frame where you are being reactive (i.e. does she like me?). Come from the frame of projecting your personality and having no care if she likes it or not.

mahi

a girl love me so much, i have said her i love u also. but i want to leave her. how can it possible and i don’t want to hurt her.

ankit

can you plz explain me the second step im not getting it.

    Brad Branson

    When you are with a girl don’t be afraid to take up space. Relax in your chair, sprawl out on the sofa, etc… The point is you don’t want to feel like you are invading someone else’s space and constrict yourself.

Kruti Ballav

Now I’ve 9999 girlfriends

    Brad Branson

    Lol

Yugam

gonna try that ..
and i m sure its gonna work the right way

    Brad Branson

    Sweet let me know of you have questions…

cody

there is a girl in my college and i like her,i maintain space,eye contact and i am chasing and talking to her for two days,she talks a little but is a little hasty while talkin,i want to ask her for a movie and planning of asking her to be my girlfriend during the movie,also i’m a hottie in my class and many girls wanna be my girlfriend but she is in another class please give some suggetion

    Brad Branson

    A girl needs to be attracted before she will be your girlfriend. You are placing too much value on this one girl and being needy. My advice to beginners is massive exposure. Go out and talk to a bunch of different girls and focus on the “I am awesome” frame.

Robust prince

Mr.Brad Branson Your tips were good and your Page http://www.bradbranson.com/live-the-high-fidelity-life-mind-excellence/ is too good i just wish you if you could spare some time letting me know how to become a perfect man (In everything) i checked many such sites but i liked the way you present . I will be waiting for the reply. Thank you .

    Brad Branson

    No one will ever be a perfect man (except for the Dos Equis man). Improving your work ethic and developing a higher level of consciousness requires consistent right action. Focus on developing habits that will move you in the direction you want to go.

sabir

hey braddy thanks for the advice its really work

    Brad Branson

    Thanks :)

nave

super tips

    Brad Branson

    Cheers :)

mrinal

i know this advice are helpful but i need a little more help
i am trying on a girl that is in school
please help

supriyo

sir, one of my students has fallen in my love and she’s been trying to express it implicitly but is not proposing me directly but i cann’t understand what to do here though i have also started feeling likewise.right now what sholuld i do to make her propose me?




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